How to Survive Real Estate

While buying or selling a home may be one of the most exciting things you can do, it is also one of the most stressful. Anyone who says otherwise either doesn't know, or is lying!

Having just recently bought a new house and having sold my own home, I can tell you first hand from my experience...increasingly gray hair, a wife ready to permanently check-into a spa and no idea where most of my belongings are.

But we came out the other side with a new home we're looking forward to renovating, a 'perfect' home to live in the meantime until closing (minus the nice pillows the stagers brought in), and a sale price that made it all worth it.

But where does all this trouble start?

Let's walk through the rollercoaster of real estate and I'll give you a few good tips to minimize the stress along the way.

Let the shopping begin...

Sure, it starts innocently enough. Maybe it's your first home or you just started snooping at open houses. At some point, you get serious. The dreaming begins, you start to see your entire life unfold...all the great parties you'll host, the children running around in the yard, the visions of new kitchens dancing in your head.

Get your financing in order.
My wife says it's like finding a pair of Manalo Blahniks in her size, on sale, and no wallet in her purse. It's even worse to put a financing condition on a property that is getting multiple offers or putting an offer in without it and wondering if your banker will answer your call.

It's ok to want it.
While the shopping has been fun, the time comes when you find THE place. If you're competing with other home buyers for a home, you can't help but get your hopes up, despite everyone telling you not to. So go with it, let yourself want it but realize that if it doesn't work out, there truly is a reason.

Go big or go home.
If you are going to put an offer in, prepare to make your best offer. It's not just about price. First, get over paying more than what they are asking. Many people 'hold back' and list their home below market value to generate more interest in their home anyway. Pretend you never saw the listing price. What would you be willing to pay for the home?

Keep it clean.
Make your offer 'clean', as they say in the business. A home inspection may have been done already and your financing should already be in order. Try to work with their possession date. Living with the in-laws for a month may not be your idea of fun but if it means you get the home you want, it's worth it. Well, maybe.

Time to Sell Your Home...

You may not have one to sell, but if you do, this is where it gets a bit scary.

In today's market, people are often buying before they have sold. And when they've bought, it usually leaves them 2-3 months to get rid of their old place.

My wife has had a lot of experience with this approach, but when we bought our first house before I was an agent, we still had to sell our condo. I thought I was going to have a heart attack.

It's not as risky as you think.
If your home is made as attractive as possible to buyers, and is priced appropriately for the current market conditions (not when your cousin sold three months ago) then it will sell. You also have some financing options to bridge your mortages for up to 60 days.

Your home is a product to market.
It still shocks me when I see a home for sale with the christmas lights still up. You should be treating your home as a product that needs to be marketed to get the best price. So yes, this means putting your kids ant farm away and taking down the holiday decor.

Get Time, Get Help and if you can, Get Out.
You should plan to take a couple of days off work and book a weekend to get your home ready. Otherwise you will burn out and hate life. This is also a fantastic time to call in all of those favours for free labour, or find someone you can pay who can do all of the heavy lifting and won't ask for a beer every five minutes. Try not to live in your home while you are showing it unless you don't mind getting kicked out every two hours and have a cleaning fairy hidden in your closet.

Setting the Stage
Many people will gripe about the cost of professional staging, or even better, think they can do it themselves. I have a philosophy in life that people should focus on what they do best and let the professionals do the rest. There is a reason why they are professionals and why home staging has exploded as a strategy. It works. Hire them, even at a minimum for a consultation. Do everything they tell you.

Let it go.
When preparing your house for sale, you need to get accept that it is no longer yours. It is the prospective buyer's home. You will not suffer any ill effects if your wedding pictures are not on display. Nor will you be in big trouble if you put the sports gear you no longer use anyway in storage. Neutral paint colours will not kill your spirit. In fact, you may feel suprisingly light from the elimination of junk and visual clutter.

Prepare for a good fight.
If you have the good fortune to have a partner throughout all this, then you can share in the excitement. But you also get to share in the stress. My wife and I made every effort to keep 'please' and 'thank you' in our conversations but we knew that one of us would snap at some point and a few words starting with 'f' and 'a' got in there a few times. Neither of us took it personally and let the other have a good meltdown here and there. A glass of wine makes an excellent mediator for repair.

Allow for maximum distraction.
Plan for some good times while the house is on the market. The waiting is probably the worst of it so the more you can do to fill your time the better. Just think, the house is perfect so you don't have anything to do at home for once! You may be staying with the in-laws so what better reason to get out.

Trust the man.
Back to letting the professionals do what they do best... Follow the advice given to you but make your goals, risk tolerance and options clear up front. Share what is most important to you in the process. Is it selling by a certain date? Getting a certain price? Minimizing risk or going for gold? You can also call me anytime to talk about what's happening. It's my job to be there for you.

Celebrate.
You're now the proud buyer, seller or both. Make sure you celebrate with those who helped you....and don't forget to thank your real estate agent over a pint or two :)

Who do you know who is ready to buy or sell? If you or anyone you know is ready to take the first step, share my blog with them or give me a call.

Regards,
Mark

Mark Richards
Sales Representative
416-690-2181
mrichards@trebnet.com